So, it wasnt until recently (like yesterday) that I finally sorted out why people have flings. Because they should be fun. If executed properly, they ARE fun.
Por exemplo, my ex from high school...totally fling-worthy. Why? Because he broke up with me and [sadly] regrets it I think, which essentially means I have the power. I can (and do) come and go as I please. Its something to occupy my time.
Another ex. he is a bum right now. Flingworthy? Yes! As the fling, you could care less about their goals and aspirations and how long its taking them to get there. You just want to have fun.
Some of my close guy friends? Also fling worthy...no desire to date them seriously. I know them too well.
As you can see, exes are the most readily available for flings. Esepecially since if you broke up on relatively decent terms (or the years have tempered your emotions and you are now on decent terms), but there is definitely a reason(s) that you would not be with them for now, they are safe. Now, William? No fling available here. Just not going to happen.
Long story short, I get the fling now. I think I am at the place where I'm not necessarily looking for a boyfriend, which allows me to have flings, and to have some fun. Thank goodness!!
Oh, and Happy New Year!
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